today i wore a v-neck to school, something that is totally normal for 99% of the girls there, one of the girls in my french class was wearing one similar to mine in fact.
but my french teacher came up to me and told me that i was out of dress code and that i was asking for something to happen to me.
and all day long i had to slap guys who found it perfectly okay to grab them.
im a 32DDD, 5’1, and 115 pounds. due to this im known around the school as the walking boobs, the girl who grew in other places, and BITS. I constantly get called a whore and a tease.
Girls are always accusing their boyfriends of sleeping with me.
and there have been times when i have had to tell teachers that my eyes are up here.
i grew boobs in the eighth grade, i was a DD then, and i cant tell you how many fights i got into with guys who thought it was alright to stick their faces in them.
the point of all of this is that its bullshit.
i should be able to wear a v neck to school without worrying about who is going to grab my boobs next, or who is going to throw a gum wrapper in them, or what girls are going to say next.
That’s the thing. it’s normal for us to have boobs, but people dont realize the fact that girls would like to go around without being hit on, or called ‘slut’ or ‘whore’ just for having them. we don’t control how large they get!
and the female body is so oversexualized that i wasn’t surprised (sadly) by most of this. we get told to cross our ankles, don’t show our chests, don’t spread our legs. if we get raped, we’re ‘asking for it’. if we have sex before we get married, we’re ‘sluts’ and ‘whores’.
but boys are seen as the exact opposite. you had sex? cool man, you’re so cool. you show off 97% of your skin? damn boy. (and let me clarify here that this is why i really like male feminists, they understand these things and call their own friends out on their bull crap)
but back on the main point before i start rioting. these kinds of things that the other students (and teachers!?! OH MY GOD) are doing are awful. they need to cut the crap. seriously.
you should call them out. a boy puts his face there? grab his hair, pull him up, and call him out in front of everyone. a girl says something that’s sooooo not true? call her out too. they have no right to say these kinds of things